Learning to cope

Well . . . it seems difficult in my life right now to keep a blog as up to date as Tim's. I am easily overwhelmed these days and just try to get through to the next day. But I have learned that even though i may not have time for things now doesn't me that i will never have time for them. As a mom with 3 demanding kids and very little time to myself i have to look at my life in phases. Soon the boys will be more independent and i won't have to keep such a close eye on them, or be so involved in everything they do. And i have also learned that I can not be their everything. There should be other people in their lives to give them things that i just can't. Like wrestling, Wrestling is Daddy's thing, I don't need to be on the floor getting punched and jumped on because Daddy is around to do it and he likes it. This is a good thing for me, it is still hard to not feel inadequate when i cant give the kids something they really need but i am accepting it and learning to appreciate it.